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Rocco DiSpirito talks technique, content creation, and the path of the modern chef

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Josh sits down with chef, restaurateur, author, and television pioneer Rocco DiSpirito for a wide-ranging conversation about how dramatically the path of a chef has changed. Recorded at Bar Rocco, the episode begins with Josh realizing that Rocco actually judged a cooking competition he entered 25 years ago, before the two revisit their shared connection to legendary chef Gray Kunz. Rocco traces his own path from earning 50 cents an hour at a Queens pizzeria to culinary school, Europe, Lespinasse, Union Pacific, television, health and wellness, and eventually back into restaurants. Along the way, they unpack what young cooks once had to endure to gain access to culinary knowledge and whether today's chefs really need the same years of repetition and classical training now that so much information is instantly available online.  

Rocco and Josh also get into the realities of building a sustainable career as a chef, from why great food alone may no longer be enough to why Rocco's former business partner taught him to balance "perfecting" with "promoting." They discuss social media, chef IP, restaurant ownership, licensing and management deals, and why Rocco believes younger chefs shouldn't become overly protective of a name or trademark. Rocco shares how triathlon training transformed his approach to health and led to nine health and wellness books, names some of the cookbooks that shaped him, and gets deep into the technique behind cooking with black truffles. The conversation closes with what's ahead: more Bar Rocco, a new book blending recipes and stories, his work with CookUnity, and, above all, a desire to keep cooking.  

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What We Cover

00:00 Reconnecting 25 years after Josh first met Rocco

06:42 Rocco's early career, culinary school, and Gray Kunz

14:11 How a Queens pizzeria changed Rocco's life

18:02 Why the traditional path to becoming a chef has changed

23:42 Training cooks when fundamentals are no longer assumed

27:26 Why chefs need media to build sustainable careers

37:46 Protecting chef IP and rethinking restaurant ownership

41:45 How health and triathlons transformed Rocco's cooking

49:52 The cookbooks that shaped Rocco as a chef

53:17 Black truffles, flavor, and the value of hands-on experience

Transcript

Rocco Dispirito (00:00.046)No. He's the wild one. Alright, we're here. Well, thanks for having us, man. it's up to you, man. If you want the do are you cool with the music?

No, what's what's that about? Yeah.

Josh Sharkey (00:12.43)Leave the music on.

No, Norton. Yeah, I mean most people want it off.

Felipe, please. Do you think we can shut the music and close the doors? Thanks.

Okay.

Imagine we shot this whole thing and it's like, the music was on the whole time. We got nothing we can use. I'm good in post. okay.

Rocco Dispirito (00:30.462)Yeah.

Yeah, he's yeah, he's a whiz with that, but la the last restaurant I I hate asking to do it, like to turn off compressors and shit 'cause I I didn't like when people did it to me. And and this morning he was like, Hey c can you guys shut off all the music? And they're like, It's lunch service. But it was like the middle of the you know. All right, anyways, we're here. We're good. Chef, thanks for hosting us here. I really appreciate it. I don't know if you know this, but like I met you twenty five years ago.

I don't remember that. You got you're gonna have to remind me. Yeah. Let's reminisce. Let's reminisce.

Okay, so I wanna start with this and then I have something. So twenty five years ago, I was in culinary school and then I twenty six years ago was in culinary school and I flew to New York for the finals of this contest, the Norwegian Seafood Export Council. And you, Marcus Samuelson, Eric Rapair, and Rick Moonin were the judges. Do you remember that?

Wow. Wow. What a table. I I some memory of it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Do you remember the venue? Where was the venue?

Rocco Dispirito (01:32.364)Yeah y it's something you don't remember. it was at this group called the Food Group. This guy my god, what now I'm they were on they were I think they on like well no though the the the the the venue was like their office. So like this guy Tim Urban used to work for Kunz a long time ago. He st moved to the food group and then they worked with like a bunch of different companies and somehow you four were the judges. I ended up going to Norway with repair and moonin and

That I remember. Do you remember what part of town it was or what restaurant?

Josh Sharkey (01:54.456)Got it. Okay.

Josh Sharkey (02:00.408)So you won. Amazing. Congrats.

John Mariani. Yeah I won. And and you were one of the judges. I mean I'm I'm ninety nine point nine percent sure you made it at least to the 'cause I you were like one of the like premier judges, but you didn't come to Nora with us.

Amazing. Cool.

Josh Sharkey (02:11.766)Yeah. Okay. That's cool, man. How was that experience? Was it was it fun? You went to Norway for free, got all expense paid with Rick Moonin? That sounds like fun. cool. Great.

Mean news.

Rocco Dispirito (02:21.57)Yeah, I ended up working for Rick after that. yeah, that was two thousand, two thousand one. I I asked myself that a lot. I mean, Rick's an incredible chef. I I I I'd I'd you know, I was deciding which one and I don't I don't actually remember why. I went to Oceana

No, why Rick and not Eric?

Obviously, yeah.

Josh Sharkey (02:41.036)Yeah. Well Rick probably had something available and Eric didn't. There was a time where we we actually had full kitchens. Yeah. Yeah.

Rocco Dispirito (02:48.492)Well, then, this was like two thousand, it was yeah, you couldn't get a stage in the kitchen. Like you actually you know, you had to you had to beg to work for free for a week in the hopes that at some point something opens up.

Right. Yeah.

Josh Sharkey (02:59.542)Right.

Right, things have changed a lot since then. Back then we people would yeah, would p would offer their f services for free for a week, a month, a year sometimes and then hope for a job. Yep.

Now it's

Rocco Dispirito (03:12.236)Yeah, yeah. And and you would like I remember I w I worked for free at other jobs in the morning on my days off. N at at all times, just to learn 'cause you would you that's how you 'cause otherwise how you there was no Google. Well we're gonna we're gonna talk about this today and yeah, we also both know Rigos, which I I forgot and remember because I had drinks with me on night and he's like and he reminded me that you you guys are buddies.

Yeah. Right. Right. 'Cause there was no Google. You couldn't you couldn't look up videos of all your favorite chefs. Okay.

Rocco Dispirito (03:39.522)But I brought you a gift first because my mentor is Greg Kunz. I spent a lot of time working for him. You worked for him for a long time. And I brought you some stuff. First I brought you well, I brought you a meas scale because drugs or food, you choose.

cool, really? Okay. Yeah. Yes, for sure.

Josh Sharkey (03:51.831)terrific. Thank you so much.

I mean it's you know, whether it's Xanthem gum or you know, but you take it with you. I you know, I always gotta carry it with me.

Yeah, yeah.

Josh Sharkey (04:05.806)This you know, that's the premier one, but so this one you already know. That said, you have a bunch of these. I have one with my name, you probably do as well. This one, honestly, this is my favorite. The little one. People sleep on the little one because it's like a gorgeous like I mean if you're gonna like go ham, those are like your spoons for like

Thank you so much.

Josh Sharkey (04:22.21)Yeah, the little one's good. Little one's definitely good too, yeah. It's like a gorgeous

Josh Sharkey (04:30.894)For sure. No, having both is important though because it's you know, different tasks require different measurements. What's this like a Damascus kind of effect? Wow. Like a black steel kind of thing? Yeah, Damascus. Very cool. Is it actual Damascus or is it just really? cool. That's so cool.

Yeah. Yeah, that's the Damascus one. That's the I forget what they call the thing, but Yeah, but this is the Damascus one. Which is it actually Damascus? Yeah, yeah, yeah. No it is, yeah. Yeah, that's like the they only did a limited run of those, but I

These spoons are the greatest things ever. When I was at Lespinas, they just started with the spoons. We just used to use his spoons, the ones that he brought. And then he he got them made in Hong Kong and he and he brought a bunch to us and we lost them immediately. Everybody stole them. and then he started banging numbers in the in the back of the spoon. You remember the numbers? Okay.

Yeah. you remember the numbers? well no we got names. So our our Christmas bonus was an extra spoon with their name on it.

Right, okay. So went from hearing him do this. Does it sound like banging? Sounds perfect. Hearing him in the office going like this all night long to this sound.

Rocco Dispirito (05:29.89)hearing him in the office going like this all night long to

Yeah.

every day 'cause he would then start to engrave the back of the spoon with a little engraver. And he would do it himself. He'd sit there in the office and and you'd you'd end up with a very very weird version of your name on the back. Yeah.

You he'd end up with a very, very weird version of your name on the back. Yeah. He would also drive the Zamboni himself. Yes, he would So that was always impressive. I worked there pre Zamboni. So I

Yes, you would. You're right. But I worked there pre Zamboni. So I worked there pre I worked there in the first kitchen. Do you remember the first kitchen? Were you there for that?

Rocco Dispirito (06:02.754)Yeah. I I got to New York in two thousand. okay. So you saw the second kitchen. Yeah. So the first kitchen we

okay. So you s you saw the second kitchen, yeah. So the first kitchen we had a squeegee and a wet vac. That was the pre Zamboni, yeah, Arab. Which worked great. Which worked great. Yeah. Never worked in a cleaner kitchen, that's for sure.

I mean still, you know. Yeah. No, no, and you never will. Alright, well you you of course. Well I figured you would appreciate it. you that's all that's all for you, man. Yeah, of course. Of course. I also like every year I I buy a big swath of these because I just want to support and you know, tell Nicole that like we're we're doing it and she's always like make sure you're buying the real thing. yeah, I know, because there's copies down.

This is amazing. Thank you so much. I really appreciate it. Yeah. I get to keep all three? you're amazing.

Rocco Dispirito (06:42.732)Yes, yeah, people it's unfortunate. Yeah. Nicole actually benefits from these purchases? Well the family does, yeah. I I didn't know that. That's great news. Okay. Yeah. all right, well you've done too many of these, so I'm gonna actually tell everybody your I'm gonna do my crack at your background in a in a nutshell. Okay. before before were a little kid, right? So like sixteen you went to culinary school. Yes. Went CIA went o overseas

I think you wanted to work for G yeah, my you wanted to work for Giro Day.

Yes, okay, got it. Is this okay by the way? Yeah. you know about that?

you can you can you can hear? Alright, that's fine. Yeah. Okay, cool. Yeah, well I so what I know, what I think is like you want to work for Giro Day vicariously of course for working for by working for Kunts, you you get you get Giro Day and Boulet would be the same.

How do you know about that? Yeah.

Josh Sharkey (07:30.686)Yes. Yes. But did you know that I specifically rode to Giraday and tried to get a job there and I went to work for Kunz in order to get to Giradais? Okay. Now how do you know that?

Yeah. Yes. Yes. Your your goal was to get to Well, because it it's it's my i I I have to do research on you before. I know I n I know I think, you know, I I you've done a lot of these, so I think it's my job to always make sure you don't have to repeat things that you already said. but I would say that I it was incredible to hear, you know, your your path obviously going overseas, not learning the language, you know, just landing there with no no money and you know, getting

Is it out in the public? Wow. That's amazing.

Rocco Dispirito (08:06.124)you know, making it work, right? Getting back, working for Koontz, and I mean you were very young. And any cook I'm forty five, but any cook in the late nineties to two thousands, Union Pacific was you know, it was epic. It was you know, it was like one of those like gems where you're like, How the fuck did that happen? You saw the email. I did I didn't even it didn't even click for me that your email is still UPAC at me.

Yeah. Yeah.

Josh Sharkey (08:24.834)Thank you. Thank you so much. What's that?

Yes, it is. Yeah, it still is that email. Yeah.

So I the trajectory obviously then you you know you you jumped into media but then you you got back into to food with the standard and and barracco among many other things. But my first question for you is you you wanted to buy love gun. Couldn't get the money. Your mom said go f go get a fucking job if you want it. Love gun, kiss. You're from Queens. One, do you still listen to KISS?

Yeah. Yeah. Right.

Josh Sharkey (09:00.928)Absolutely still listen to Kiss, still love Kiss. still friends with Paul and Gene and yeah, Paul was here recently having dinner. yeah, so it's a really lovely full circle story. Yeah. Yeah, yeah.

Really?

Rocco Dispirito (09:13.174)I had no idea you're they're you're flying with I mean that you're from Queens and I mean you got Runde C you Mob Deep, you got Nas, you got like tribe.

That's right, yeah. So when I was a kid at that time, seventy seven, Run DC was maybe a year or two away, but Love Gun was I think a number one bestseller at the time and some girls by the stones. And then there was another one I can't remember, but I wanted all three and my mom wouldn't give me the money for the KISS specifically 'cause she thought they were ruining my life 'cause I had a room plastered with their posters. I was so obsessed that even my ceiling had posters of KISS and she hated it. So she

She thought she would straighten me out by not giving me any money for k not that she gave you money for albums anyway. She was not that kind of family. Yeah. Cause she didn't have it. You know, she wasn't gonna g she wasn't gonna make money happen for something recreational like an album. You know, tuition was barely paid for, so my little Catholic school that I went to. So anything extra sh sh would have taken an insurmountable amount of

Like meaning on purpose because sh the principle was for you to work. Okay.

Josh Sharkey (10:15.17)work and s cashing away money from her and that she wasn't gonna waste that on Love Gun. Three ninety nine. Three ninety nine. Every album was three ninety nine back then. Yeah.

How much was

Rocco Dispirito (10:19.458)How much was a kiss album at the time?

So what is it like he worked at a pizza joint, right?

I worked in a pizzeria at the time, I made fifty cents an hour, I work sixty hours a week. Yeah, I'm first week, my first week there. Yeah. So she threw down the gauntlet, she said, You go to work, you know, and her accent was hilarious and I did it immediately. Within twenty four hours I had a job in a restaurant.

Okay, so it didn't take long to get a

All right. So

Rocco Dispirito (10:44.792)So pizza joints back then, I mean, were they like were they like making their own dough? Were they making sauce or was like

Definitely making your own dough. I'm worried about that noise. Should I be?

You're gonna be okay? Okay.

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