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Who really is “The Man”? Plus tallow replacing seed oils, and slinging premade pancakes.

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Josh sits down with Matthew Conway and Michael Jacober for a spirited conversation about restaurant pricing, profitability, and what guests are actually paying for when they go out. What starts with a nearly $9 Modelo in New York quickly turns into a much bigger debate about whether bars and restaurants are justified in charging premium prices for simple products, or whether the industry has lost touch with what guests are willing to bear. Along the way, they unpack labor costs, rent, experience, hospitality, and the tension between running a viable business and keeping dining and drinking accessible.

The conversation then expands into broader questions around capitalism, consumer behavior, and where restaurant economics may be heading next. They debate whether lower alcohol consumption is driven by shifting culture or rising prices, whether operators are passing value to their teams or just protecting margins, and what responsibility restaurants have to the guest experience. The episode closes with a side trip into seed oils, animal fats, and the return of tallow, giving the whole discussion a larger throughline: how cost, quality, and perception shape nearly every decision in hospitality.


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What We Cover

04:28 The Setup: Beer Pricing, Hospitality, And Consumer Expectations

10:20 Who Gets The Margin And Who Is “The Man”?

19:27 Are People Drinking Less Because It’s Too Expensive?

28:59 Why Restaurants May Need To Charge More Than They Do

35:20 The Core Debate: Is A $9 Modelo Fair Or Outrageous?

40:01 The Animal Fat Revival And Why Tallow Is Back

45:16 Why Seed Oils Took Over In The First Place

49:32 Tallow For Cooking, Cleaning, And Even Skin Care

52:07 What Restaurants Owe Guests, Teams, And Themselves

Transcript

Joshua Sharkey (00:00.182)Everybody's willing to pay $1,100 for an iPhone. Everybody's willing to pay $40 for an Uber that's done the minute that you're done with that Uber. Everybody's willing to pay for all of those things. But, you know, in a restaurant, there's this, I believe that the problem is just like this willingness to pay what actually we should be charging. I actually think you should be charging $8 for that beer because you don't make it. It's a smart move, right? It's nice margin. It's something that you can be, that can predict.

and that you can have an inventory, you know what it is, it's very little labor involved, so that you can offset being able to do the better things on food, on cocktails. I just think it's a smart move. And also, you you should be paying a premium for things that, like, you should be paying a premium for things that otherwise just go to the store and get a modello. What's the difference? If you're at my restaurant where I'm paying $30,000, $40,000 a month in rent, and I have 40, 50 people on staff, and I have HVAC, and I have lights, and I have all these utilities, and I have all these...

bills and then you can go to that bodega who's got one person working all day long and it costs you know four dollars you can choose to do that or you can come to this like beast of a four wall like entity that takes so much to run and if you want that same four dollar thing it's going to be ten you're listening to me podcast under host Josh Sharkey the founder and CEO of Mies a culinary operating system for food professionals on the show we're going to talk to high performers in the food business everything from

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We're live, all right? So just say offensive things and let's get this thing rolling, okay? Let's do it. I need to get back into the zone. I'm like, you know, it's hard to jump from, I have therapy on Tuesdays and it's really hard to like jump from like a work meeting to therapy session and then back to a work meeting. And yesterday was like a really deep therapy session where we got to some real good outcomes, but I was like in a place. I'm like, man, I have to just go back to another meeting.

Joshua Sharkey (02:22.776)That's what this feels like.

Matthew Conway (02:23.982)Therapeutic meeting.

Joshua Sharkey (02:25.728)No, like this is, well, this is more therapy, I think. This is, you know, but I got, you know, it came from a crazy meeting.

Matthew Conway (02:32.334)was supposed to have Benji today, but when I saw him at the hair thing, he's like, he never told me what time, what whatever I'm gonna do this week. And I said, these guys.

Michael Jacober (02:37.304)Yeah, you know.

I never, well, I just, I wasn't operating under the assumption that he was going to do this week. I just threw out an invite, but never really. Scheduled like a specific week, but it sounds like he can do next week.

Joshua Sharkey (02:55.406)I think, so I want to know what you guys think about this. I have, you know, a bunch of people that are just like asking to come on the show and like, don't want to, I'm doing less and less of like the one-on-one. And so I'm just like, Hey, come on. Just every Wednesday, 11 AM we're here. Let me know. I could ping people today. I probably won't today, but like say, Hey, just come on now. If we, as long as everybody knows 11 AM Eastern time Wednesdays.

Matthew Conway (03:19.828)If you look at how hard it is just to get the three of us on the same page, pinging people in at the last second, it's like, we should know and they should know on Monday, have an invite, have a calendar invite and be ready to go with their setup Wednesday at 11 a.m. But we got to be able to tell people, hey, we're not just throwing out random things to know if you want to make it Sunday down the year. Yes, we'd like you to come on this Wednesday at this time. It doesn't mean there can't be more.

Joshua Sharkey (03:43.596)Well, that's what I've done. So I have two booked for later that like, was like, hey, it's any Wednesday, pick a Wednesday and then we'll add your account.

Matthew Conway (03:50.702)It's coming next Wednesday.

Michael Jacober (03:52.75)That's the plan, yes.

Joshua Sharkey (03:54.158)So if you

Matthew Conway (03:54.414)Yeah, we confirmed Max in my case yesterday, or two days ago. Apparently we get our way.

Joshua Sharkey (03:58.742)He's looked you in face and said that?

He looked you in the face and said, confirm for next Wednesday.

Matthew Conway (04:05.186)get our wigs split at the same place and we were looking at each other in the face and he said, I'll be there next Wednesday.

Joshua Sharkey (04:11.278)So you guys both get your dome piece chopped at the same place. Yeah, he gets the wig split.

Michael Jacober (04:11.778)Did you just say wicks?

Matthew Conway (04:16.071)Nice.

Let's really dig in. I'm gonna go down this. I've been thinking about this all morning, so I wanna get after it. I hope you're in the good space, both of you.

Joshua Sharkey (04:28.366)I will take a sip of my third coffee. I added topics but sounds like you already got something so... you go man.

Matthew Conway (04:33.486)I'm willing to whatever, I think it's a good precursor to the conversation that I had wanted to have with Benji when he's not here. But this is actually stuff that he probably shouldn't be involved in. And it's probably good that it's just the three of us, especially if we actually work hard in the coming weeks to make sure that at least for the foreseeable future, there's at least a fourth Benji. I'm going to beat up about beer, not beat up personally. I want to get his thing on that because that's really a hot topic for me.

But as I was going down this conversation of beer in my head, which is a huge thing for me last year that I went on and on about, and then when I was leaving my one day in New York last week, I got charged $8.97 for a Medello pre-tip. I double checked with a couple of my homies that buy them wholesale, and the wholesale price on that is still less than a dollar in New York City. So somebody's out there charging $9 and...

That's a conversation that I think is something I said, a big operator and Keith is perfect for that with the type of units that he operates. But then I started thinking a little bit deeper and you know, we've had a bunch of conversations, the three of us, and when we came into this, I thought that you guys were going to be like the tech forward guys and I was going to be the old man that still takes inventory with a pen and a paper and that maybe

Going back to Sharkey's and I debate at Tatiana, he wanted somebody that was still kind of old school, still kind of stuck in the past yelling at clouds to come on and kind of take a different approach to hospitality or the things that we're discussing than two guys who are tech savvy and kind of know what your Lamborghini microphone is and how to fix it and all that shit.

Joshua Sharkey (06:17.772)Matt, on, before, I want you to finish this, but I just want to be clear. I thought you were a perfect host, not because of the old school piece, but because you are argumentative in a good way, but like you have, you're very opinionated and you go ham on your opinions. And I think that there, and you actually have like very deep principles and you stick to them no matter what. And that's why, not because of the old school. Just to be clear.

Matthew Conway (06:46.24)get heard, but I also have deep room and respect for other people's opinions, even when I'm adamant about mine. So let's, let's be clear. Again, it depends, but we'll see. So as we got into this, you know, there's been a lot of topics where you guys have chosen to take a position. Sometimes you say it's a position that you believe in, and sometimes you say you're kind of playing devil's advocate and I can go back to the episodes. And I sat through this.

Joshua Sharkey (06:54.603)I agree.

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